Ava and I were in a public restroom. Now, this is how the experience usually goes. Ava uses the potty first. Then I try to get my business done while begging her not to open the door just yet. The sounds of muffled laughter from other stalls are always helpful.
Well, this time, the door lock was too high for her to reach. It was wonderful. In fact, I'll admit it, I kind of enjoyed watching her fruitlessly try to reach the door lock secure in my knowledge that she couldn't reach it.
Ava stepped back, frustrated and said to me, "door high." I replied, "Yes, sweetheart. The lock is really high." She looked up at the lock again, and then back at me. Then she said, "Mama tall." I was astounded. I didn't even know she knew what tall meant, much less that she would make the connection to how the concept applied in this particular situation. And then she used it in a sentence well enough that I completely understood what she was saying.
All in all, a very nice trip to the restroom.
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Subtle Problems are Harder to Explain
I was talking with our early intervention therapist about Ava's speech trying to figure out what it is that still worries me. Ava is doing so much better. She looks more age appropriate. That is good, of course, but I know both as an SLP and as her mother that there is something there I need to pay attention to.
Yes, Ava is still missing individual sounds (k, g, f, v, r, l, etc.), but all of those sounds develop late anyway and aren't always present in a young two year old anyway. And, some of them are starting to emerge a little. I'm seeing hints of an /f/ and hints of a /k/ for example. So, I'm not crazy worried about the missing sounds. Sure, the fact that they're missing makes her harder to understand, but in a relatively age appropriate way.
Yes, she still exhibits quite a few phonological processes. The big ones are final consonant deletion (leaving off those final consonants) and syllable reduction (taking a three syllable word and saying it as a two syllable word). Again, phonological processes are a normal part of speech development, and it isn't too age inappropriate for her to still be exhibiting some. It's particularly reasonable given that she's only been talking at all for a grand total of three and a half to four months. So, to summarize, I'm not too worried about the phonological processes either.
What I do see are signs of a motor planning problem - apraxia. I have a little girl who has a lot to say. She understands what she hears. She has a great vocabulary. She wants to put together 4-5 word sentences which is pretty darned good for a just turned two year old. However, whenever the syllable structure gets complicated she struggles. Whenever she tries to put together over three syllables she struggles. Whenever she's trying a new word or sentence structure that is complicated she struggles.
Yes, her motor planning problem is mild, but it is definitely there. And, more importantly, it is holding her back from her potential. I think without the apraxia she'd be startlingly articulate. As it is, she struggles to express everything she'd like to. I'm told that she's extremely quiet at school and hardly talks at all. At home she's trying to talk all the time, but she doesn't at school. Is it a confidence issue? It is because the processing demands are higher in a higher stress environment? Is it just her personality to be shy at school? I don't know, but I want her to get to a point where she is able to say everything she wants to and she isn't being held back by the apraxia.
And so we will continue to work on it. It is so easy to get distracted by the sounds she can't say or the phonological processes she exhibits, but the bigger issue is definitely the motor planning. The best strategies I've found to help with the motor planning problems are the tapping and the visual prompts. We'll stick with using those in context to help her say the things that she wants to say. And we'll see how her speech continues to develop over the next several months.
Yes, Ava is still missing individual sounds (k, g, f, v, r, l, etc.), but all of those sounds develop late anyway and aren't always present in a young two year old anyway. And, some of them are starting to emerge a little. I'm seeing hints of an /f/ and hints of a /k/ for example. So, I'm not crazy worried about the missing sounds. Sure, the fact that they're missing makes her harder to understand, but in a relatively age appropriate way.
Yes, she still exhibits quite a few phonological processes. The big ones are final consonant deletion (leaving off those final consonants) and syllable reduction (taking a three syllable word and saying it as a two syllable word). Again, phonological processes are a normal part of speech development, and it isn't too age inappropriate for her to still be exhibiting some. It's particularly reasonable given that she's only been talking at all for a grand total of three and a half to four months. So, to summarize, I'm not too worried about the phonological processes either.
What I do see are signs of a motor planning problem - apraxia. I have a little girl who has a lot to say. She understands what she hears. She has a great vocabulary. She wants to put together 4-5 word sentences which is pretty darned good for a just turned two year old. However, whenever the syllable structure gets complicated she struggles. Whenever she tries to put together over three syllables she struggles. Whenever she's trying a new word or sentence structure that is complicated she struggles.
Yes, her motor planning problem is mild, but it is definitely there. And, more importantly, it is holding her back from her potential. I think without the apraxia she'd be startlingly articulate. As it is, she struggles to express everything she'd like to. I'm told that she's extremely quiet at school and hardly talks at all. At home she's trying to talk all the time, but she doesn't at school. Is it a confidence issue? It is because the processing demands are higher in a higher stress environment? Is it just her personality to be shy at school? I don't know, but I want her to get to a point where she is able to say everything she wants to and she isn't being held back by the apraxia.
And so we will continue to work on it. It is so easy to get distracted by the sounds she can't say or the phonological processes she exhibits, but the bigger issue is definitely the motor planning. The best strategies I've found to help with the motor planning problems are the tapping and the visual prompts. We'll stick with using those in context to help her say the things that she wants to say. And we'll see how her speech continues to develop over the next several months.
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Redecoration
I'm going to begin with the basic facts.
A few months before Ava was born we decided to move Michael into the guest bedroom and to give Ava his old room. My dad painted his room a wonderful shade of green and we bought beautiful wall decals to decorate the room. Well, the wall decals didn't go up for months and months, but we finally made the time. I entertained both children while Daddy painstakingly arranged the decals around the room and the room came out beautifully. Note exhibit A: beautifully arranged wall decals.
Last night we noticed a brand new arrangement of wall decals (exhibit B). Michael had borrowed bits and pieces of other arrangements to make a new one of his own. He climbed up on a chair in his room (multiple times I assume) to arrange the stolen elements next to one of the pictures in his room.
Initial reactions.
Parents: Did you do this?!?
Michael: No. (obviously a lie)
Parents: Why did you do that? Mommy and Daddy worked hard to make your room pretty!
Michael: I'm sorry. (looking pitiful and crushed)
Parents: (starting to feel a little guilty) Well, it does look very nice sweetheart, and we can tell you worked hard on it. But Mommy and Daddy worked hard on your stickers and we would like for you to leave them where they are from now on.
At that point we returned to the regularly scheduled bedtime routine and put Michael to bed for the night.
Parental Discussion
Dala: Why is it that our first reaction to creativity and initiative is to crush it? I'm feeling a little guilty.
(can still hear banging from upstairs indicating that Michael is actually awake and playing rather than sleeping)
Daddy: It did look pretty nice didn't it?
Dala: Yeah, and he must have worked hard on it.
Daddy: That's it. I'm going upstairs right now to talk to him about it.
5-10 minute delay
Daddy's report.
Dala: So, how did that go?
Daddy: He obviously felt proud. We went over and I picked him up so we could look at it. We talked about how nice it looked. He was relieved that we liked it.
Dala: You're such a good Daddy.
Your thoughts?
What do you think? Was our initial reaction as out of line as we thought? Would you let your kids intentionally rearrange their room decorations?
A few months before Ava was born we decided to move Michael into the guest bedroom and to give Ava his old room. My dad painted his room a wonderful shade of green and we bought beautiful wall decals to decorate the room. Well, the wall decals didn't go up for months and months, but we finally made the time. I entertained both children while Daddy painstakingly arranged the decals around the room and the room came out beautifully. Note exhibit A: beautifully arranged wall decals.
Last night we noticed a brand new arrangement of wall decals (exhibit B). Michael had borrowed bits and pieces of other arrangements to make a new one of his own. He climbed up on a chair in his room (multiple times I assume) to arrange the stolen elements next to one of the pictures in his room.
Initial reactions.
Parents: Did you do this?!?
Michael: No. (obviously a lie)
Parents: Why did you do that? Mommy and Daddy worked hard to make your room pretty!
Michael: I'm sorry. (looking pitiful and crushed)
Parents: (starting to feel a little guilty) Well, it does look very nice sweetheart, and we can tell you worked hard on it. But Mommy and Daddy worked hard on your stickers and we would like for you to leave them where they are from now on.
At that point we returned to the regularly scheduled bedtime routine and put Michael to bed for the night.
Parental Discussion
Dala: Why is it that our first reaction to creativity and initiative is to crush it? I'm feeling a little guilty.
(can still hear banging from upstairs indicating that Michael is actually awake and playing rather than sleeping)
Daddy: It did look pretty nice didn't it?
Dala: Yeah, and he must have worked hard on it.
Daddy: That's it. I'm going upstairs right now to talk to him about it.
5-10 minute delay
Daddy's report.
Dala: So, how did that go?
Daddy: He obviously felt proud. We went over and I picked him up so we could look at it. We talked about how nice it looked. He was relieved that we liked it.
Dala: You're such a good Daddy.
Your thoughts?
What do you think? Was our initial reaction as out of line as we thought? Would you let your kids intentionally rearrange their room decorations?
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